[SOLVED] Custom Avatar for the Forum?

[gold_finger]

With rokytnji help I found the button to display my outbox but it displays an empty page even though I've sent 6-7 PM's.

There's no fool like an old fool  8)

I did manage my avatar though

Took me a while to figure that out.  It turns out it's a two step process.  First, do what he said -- go to top of forum page and choose My Messages -> Read Your Messages.  Then look along top left of message window and go to Messages -> Sent Items.